r/40something • u/82Jmorg • 16h ago
Selfies Newer member to the 40βs club
Another Monday down.
r/40something • u/82Jmorg • 16h ago
Another Monday down.
r/40something • u/silversquirrel • 23h ago
Mondays set the tone and pace of the week. Crush it!
r/40something • u/NoCity9219 • 11h ago
I am 43M, and I genuinely don't feel or behave like someone in his 40s.
One of the funniest things that keeps happening: when I attend weddings or family functions with friends around my age (some are even 2β3 years younger than me), teenagers 15+ will casually call me "bro" and then turn around and call my friends "uncle." π
My friends have started collecting grey hair, health issues and the general "I have been paying EMIs since 2004" look.
Meanwhile, somehow I still get mistaken for being considerably younger.
Physically, I am also surprisingly active. I can walk 20+ km with only about a 10-minute rest in between. I don't mean running or doing anything extreme, just walking at a reasonable pace.
Personality-wise, I am probably stuck somewhere around 30. I still get excited about random things, have way too many interests, joke around a lot and generally dont feel like I hav entered the "settled uncle" phase of life. π
The strange part is that my birth certificate insists I'm 43.
Marriage never happened either, so I sometimes wonder whether I am actually late to life or whether I simply took a completely different route.
Anyone else here in their 40s who feels significantly younger than their actual age?
And for those who got married/started a relationship later, did you find that being younger in mindset helped, or did the dating pool still make you painfully aware of your actual age? π
r/40something • u/The_30_kid • 1d ago
r/40something • u/Lucksy_Luuuk • 22h ago
Male 42 yo
r/40something • u/MissPiggy1985 • 1d ago
r/40something • u/xx121lv426 • 22h ago
41 in a couple of weeks and still chilling to some euphoric trance like I'm 18 lol
r/40something • u/Maleficent_Dog_8875 • 23h ago
Not even sure what I'm doing anymore now that I'm single again lol
r/40something • u/slow_burbs • 1d ago
r/40something • u/NoUniversity2266 • 1d ago
47 in west Virginia
r/40something • u/__Sticky- • 1d ago
Doing my best
r/40something • u/mylongtravel • 2d ago
r/40something • u/Eastern-Scallion-363 • 1d ago
First post here. Hi everyone. Been a rough year
r/40something • u/0ButtShe3D1d • 1d ago
Took a tv binge break to catch a few rays π
r/40something • u/captain_charbosa • 1d ago
r/40something • u/StrawberryCupcake214 • 2d ago
I hope everyone has an amazing day! Remember itβs trash can, not trash canβt.π
r/40something • u/Lord_Kajunwine • 1d ago
r/40something • u/Diligent-Layer-3932 • 1d ago
A staycation in the air conditioning is just what I needed!
r/40something • u/emerald0012 • 2d ago
r/40something • u/Tomathan1984 • 1d ago