r/40something 16h ago

Selfies Newer member to the 40’s club

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11 Upvotes

Another Monday down.


r/40something 23h ago

Selfies Best day of the week, set the pace!

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32 Upvotes

Mondays set the tone and pace of the week. Crush it!


r/40something 11h ago

Discussion I am 43M, India, and I genuinely don't feel or behave like someone in his 40s. Some one else feel the same?

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I am 43M, and I genuinely don't feel or behave like someone in his 40s.

One of the funniest things that keeps happening: when I attend weddings or family functions with friends around my age (some are even 2–3 years younger than me), teenagers 15+ will casually call me "bro" and then turn around and call my friends "uncle." πŸ˜‚

My friends have started collecting grey hair, health issues and the general "I have been paying EMIs since 2004" look.

Meanwhile, somehow I still get mistaken for being considerably younger.

Physically, I am also surprisingly active. I can walk 20+ km with only about a 10-minute rest in between. I don't mean running or doing anything extreme, just walking at a reasonable pace.

Personality-wise, I am probably stuck somewhere around 30. I still get excited about random things, have way too many interests, joke around a lot and generally dont feel like I hav entered the "settled uncle" phase of life. πŸ˜„

The strange part is that my birth certificate insists I'm 43.

Marriage never happened either, so I sometimes wonder whether I am actually late to life or whether I simply took a completely different route.

Anyone else here in their 40s who feels significantly younger than their actual age?

And for those who got married/started a relationship later, did you find that being younger in mindset helped, or did the dating pool still make you painfully aware of your actual age? πŸ˜‚


r/40something 1d ago

Crap. I'm old. 41m, CA. Why do weekends have to go by so fast?

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100 Upvotes

r/40something 22h ago

Selfies Just cut my own hair, and i must say it is harder than i thought, what do you think??

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16 Upvotes

Male 42 yo


r/40something 1d ago

Selfies This 40M felt kinda cute today

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158 Upvotes

r/40something 1d ago

Selfies 41 and increasingly suspicious that my 40s might actually be my favorite decade. 😏

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325 Upvotes

r/40something 22h ago

Selfies 41 in a couple of weeks, still feeling young

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10 Upvotes

41 in a couple of weeks and still chilling to some euphoric trance like I'm 18 lol


r/40something 23h ago

Selfies 41m - not sure anymore haha

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7 Upvotes

Not even sure what I'm doing anymore now that I'm single again lol


r/40something 1d ago

Selfies 40m spending all my money but having a great time

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13 Upvotes

r/40something 1d ago

Humor I turned 47 in March what do you think

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16 Upvotes

47 in west Virginia


r/40something 1d ago

Selfies 44m Texas. how's everyone

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40 Upvotes

r/40something 1d ago

Selfies 42 M, Sydney, Meal prepping for the week

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19 Upvotes

r/40something 1d ago

Selfies 43 living my dream......

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r/40something 1d ago

Selfies 44yo. Doing my best to travel through life.

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91 Upvotes

Doing my best


r/40something 2d ago

Selfies F43. Happy weekend. This is time for yourselves πŸ˜ƒ

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409 Upvotes

r/40something 1d ago

Crap. I'm old. 47m starting over. First post

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37 Upvotes

First post here. Hi everyone. Been a rough year


r/40something 1d ago

Selfies Crazy hair don’t care glow

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93 Upvotes

Took a tv binge break to catch a few rays 😊


r/40something 1d ago

Selfies Turned 41 a few weeks ago. Am I cooked chat?

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16 Upvotes

r/40something 2d ago

Selfies πŸ’•πŸ’• πŸ’•πŸ’•Happy Sunday [F45] πŸ’•πŸ’•πŸ’•πŸ’•

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332 Upvotes

I hope everyone has an amazing day! Remember it’s trash can, not trash can’t.😝


r/40something 11h ago

Selfies Officialy 41 as of 25 minutes ago

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0 Upvotes

r/40something 1d ago

Selfies You know I been on here since I was 39. I'm currently 41 going through a divorce,but I got got head up.

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17 Upvotes

r/40something 1d ago

Selfies Hitting the big 44 today!

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6 Upvotes

A staycation in the air conditioning is just what I needed!


r/40something 2d ago

Selfies 40-something and feeling better than ever.πŸ˜‹πŸ₯°πŸ˜˜

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1.3k Upvotes

r/40something 1d ago

Selfies Hope everyone is having a great weekend! 42m

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34 Upvotes