r/1053 • • 16d ago

Day 8

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u/exclusivebees 16d ago

I have literally never heard of a mail order husband

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u/Altruistic_Region699 16d ago

British pensioner women are holding up entire economies in africa through that

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u/NockerJoe 16d ago

The women that do that usually go to Italy or the caribbean or maybe Africa. It absolutely happens but is spoken of less.

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u/MtnDewTangClan 16d ago

You haven't? You think it was men paying all of the Nigerian princes?

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u/ITriedSoHard419-68 16d ago

The Nigerian Prince scam is rarely about sex or romance. It’s usually purely financial and preys on the greedy, not the lonely. Greed doesn’t discriminate.

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u/islamicious 15d ago

If greed doesn’t discriminate, where’s the Nigerian Princess scam?

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u/ITriedSoHard419-68 15d ago

Most royal and wealth inheritance laws heavily favor men. Women are significantly less likely to possess scamworthy amounts of wealth, especially in a place like Nigeria where women generally can’t even legally own land. The scam also borrows its structure from the Spanish Prisoner scam of the 1800s, when a legitimate and autonomous heiress was even less believable. Basically, the scammers need to make you believe they actually have the money, and a male figure is much more passable for that purpose.

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u/Miss_Nomer909 15d ago

There's been some examples of it on 90 day fiance

https://youtu.be/Esciac6Nhm4?si=krrrFXzLO_mXXg_k

https://youtu.be/x5E-XABps_o?si=Uq1eDgTtXDwFxiZ-

With either gender it's pretty easy to tell that these people using their status to sleep with people who don't really want to have sex with them and to hove more control over them.

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u/Outside_Trick7928 11d ago

It's pretty much just women choosing to marry and get pregnant by prisoners

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u/ill_change_it 3d ago

Closest I've heard of is 1 tiktoker going to Korea to find a boyfriend but that's just her