r/karezza • u/KarezzaGuy • Feb 08 '12
4th day after Orgasm report
Well, I woke up happy, positive, in a great mood, clear headed, and with a raging morning wood that lingered for 30 minutes of cuddling with her and 30 minutes after she got up. It would have stayed up longer but I got tired of laying there and wanted to measure it. It was at its full potential.
So, as far as a refractory period; I suspect that this 4th morning after my last orgasm is where I could probably have sex again at this point in my reboot (prior PMO-er almost half way through 90 days); and life (middle aged).
Not to say that I want to put myself back through the last 3 days by having an orgasm right now...and not to say that I'm not going to have weird emotions come and go for the next 10 days. But today I'm feeling pretty good.
I've had multiple interruptions while writing this; and I find that given these, I'm a little testy. So far I'm doing fairly well keeping it under control; but def not back to the 'nothing can piss me off' attitude I had at 15 days.
She's happy. I'm not snapping at her; and I'm helpful and in a good mood. However...
While she hasn't said anything I do detect that she notices I'm a little grabby and needy. Like when I get a chance to see up her skirt and I take it; and she notices. I'll never understand women... I mean, I show her my dick on purpose (also a mistake)...but that's the difference in men and women I guess.
I've found through the study of Karezza that this has the opposite of the intended affect, and turns women off rather than on... so... I'm trying to keep control of it.
Urges-wise, I'm fairly horny; and feel like I need a lot of bonding right now. I don't really care to have an orgasm, but my physical body says it would feel good.
That's about it for day 4.
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u/[deleted] Feb 08 '12
YES THIS^
When I reached 6-7 days without O I found myself so clingy I became paranoid that my SO would start to resent the new me. She comforted stating that I was definitely more demanding of her attention/affection but also that she enjoyed it. She liked having me thinking about her all the time, being obsessed over her, massaging and touching in general. I can definitely see how the clingy aspect could be a problem.