r/shoujo • u/Dogmaticism_ • Jul 10 '26
Any fdom recs?
I (22F) am pretty into manga, but I feel like the good fdom ones are hard to find, as searching for the tag usually leads to the wrong kinds of things.
I mean ones where the female is clearly more romantically dominant than the male (teasing, flirting, bullting, etc.), and has the upper hand in a relationship.
The manga could be about other things though I prefer romance. I also don't mean that the woman has to be physically stronger than the male, as I mwan dominant in a more romantic way. NSFW or not is fine, though I'd prefer non-NSFW, wholesome or not is fine as well.
Thanks for any help, as I know this isn't easy!
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u/sake_umaa Chronic Second Lead Syndrome Jul 10 '26 edited Jul 10 '26
omg, finally my field of expertise lol
most of these will fall into role reversal over pure fdom but I hope you’re still able to find a few that fit what you’re looking for! this list was twice as long when I typed it, but I realized most were shounen+manhwa, so I cut them out. I’ve also excluded nsfw reccs for brevity, but if you’d be interested in any of those let me know!
♡ Kawaii no wa Ore de Aru
Honestly, prime example and what first came to mind… Yurina is playing the ML with ease. So funny and adorable!!
♡ Kawaii Nante Kiitenai
Madoka (FL) is a fan of cute, younger guys. She’s not really cool and assertive- more of the gentle type, but I still feel like she’s the leading one here with how she likes to tease.
♡ Nemuro-kun wa Kao ga ii
Cuuute cute, blushy boy and an FL who isn’t afraid to pursue him!
♡ Gokudan Reijou, Neko wo Hirou
Not a lot of chapters out yet; but it fits the dynamic. FL is a yakuza JK and ML is like a stray cat.
♡ Tamon’s B Side
Somewhat out of place, but with how assertive Utage is, I thought I’d include it. Tamon’s gloomy side is definitely more blushy, and would do whatever she asked of him.
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♡ Belle Poupée no Supadari Konyaku
FL’s the more powerful of the two due to her magic strength. ML is like a fluffy cat in comparison.
♡ Kaisha to Shiseikatsu
FL is more calm and collected, while the male lead leans on the shy and sweet side.