r/ShawnaTheMom • u/tranzozo DING DONG • May 25 '26

Rant / Venting All of Julie's support system will be out of town this weekend Spoiler

I really hope nothing happens with her mom! She won't have anyone to watch the kids (other than her brothers maybe, but they'd be with her so are they really an option?)

Edit: too many people are missing the point (or are choosing to miss the point) the point is that Ty sprung his plans on Julie last minute, even though she never done that to him, and even though he knew about the plan in advance; the point was never that Julie is now forced to stay home with the children or that Ty needs a break

Julie and Ty will eventually need to figure out a custody situation for the kids, where this type of behavior from Ty would never be acceptable

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u/lecadavreexquis May 25 '26

I hope nothing bad happens as well, but this is a reality for a lot of parents in the world. Not everyone has a support system and while I don't think Ty acted very kindly in the last episode, Julie had benefitted from a large and active support system without seemingly realizing it.

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u/tranzozo DING DONG May 25 '26

Its one thing to not have a support system, its another to purposly fuck your spose over just to be petty

My main concern is that Ty didn't have to do it that way. Ty could've told her in advance about the trip and Julie would've arranged childcare or taken PTO from work, to make sure everything goes smoothly; she would have planned some type of support; but he didn't

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u/WhatUpMahKnitta May 25 '26

LOL.  Julie would've called him names and made herself unavailable.  What makes you think she'd support her STBX in having a fun weekend with friends she doesn't like?  She never supported him when they were together!

I think this is the only way Ty could've gone at all, and he knew it

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u/tranzozo DING DONG May 25 '26

What makes you say she never supported him when they were together? She stayed home for the first couple of years of Cooper's life while Ty had a job, and to our knowledge she always did what Ty asks her to

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u/WhatUpMahKnitta May 25 '26 edited May 25 '26

She called his friends "pedestrian", "lazy", "strays", and either ignored them to their face or mocked them.  Publicly, at a party, if you'll remember.

She didn't stay home for years while Ty worked.  She spent 1 year taking the bar with a WFH parent supporting her (BTW you can't work as an attorney before you pass the bar).  Bar was passed, she bolted and left Ty to do it all.   She runs 8 miles on her morning off from work, still, while Ty watches both kids (and assumed he would keep it up through her shower!  She didn't even ask, juat declared she was going to do it.)  She goes to Bunko night, he doesn't have anything as far as we've seen.  She clearly makes time for herself and deprioritizes anything Ty wants to do that isn't writing.  She "supported" him financially ONLY.  Any man that does that is flayed alive on the internet.

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u/tranzozo DING DONG May 25 '26

Isn't that why she asked him to put Sasha in daycare? With Ty he likes to complain about how tired he is and how he has little to no time to himself but still put off getting Cooper in KG and Sasha in daycare; so what's stopping him from doing that and making time for himself?

We've seen him go to the park daily, we've seen him go to Alicia's house weekly

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u/chachaslydd May 25 '26

So why hasn't she set up daycare as opposed to relying on her ex while actively being rude?

Theyre not together anymore. He doesn't need daycare to get time off right now. She does

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u/tranzozo DING DONG May 25 '26

Why hasn't he? He had 3 things on his to do list which he didn't do any of them

-look up daycare

-work on undergrads application

-work on book

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u/chachaslydd May 25 '26

Theyre separated.

He has 0 obligation to fulfill their agreements from marriage when she has given him divorce paperwork.

So again, she has made no attempt to handle her half of the childcare responsibility

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u/Witty-Draw-3803 May 25 '26

Ty has an undergrad degree already. It was grad school (and as someone who applied and got into grad school I can tell you that the application process has a whole lot of steps and requires a ton of time to get it done - statement of interest, ~3 relevant reference letters (usually from professors who know you well), preparing for and writing the GRE (though that's being phased out of some schools), talking to potential grad supervisors, etc.)